WEEK GONE BY

       Today is my lecture on Serial Photography.  It conflicts with the once a month Men’s Happy Hour at Casa Charles House.  We get together, toast the world and solve all it’s problems.  I will try to squeeze both activities in.
        The complex is back to normal and I’m off to have lunch with Eric and his wife at Cabuche.

              They arrived just after me and were pleased with the menu and the choice.  They felt very comfortable there.   The owner came over with some Pulque (Aztec Beer…really…fermented Agave nectar with recipes going back 3000 years).  We toasted and started ordering.  We arrived at the “cusp” of Breakfast and Lunch so I ordered Muchaca Eggs and frijoles , fresh orange juice and Cappuccino.

So Good I ate most before I remembered to Photograph it.

         They ordered Corn soup with Corn Mushrooms…a fungus that grows on the corn and very healthy for you.

Opp’s the Soup was so good that was gone before I could show you.

  After their salad,they they shared some Chili Relleno with Oaxaca Cheese and a Spicy Squash side dish. They enjoyed everything.

They invited me to join them and their Cumbia dance instructor for Friday evening at the Candela Dance Club (est 1935).  I accepted and we parted until then.

The Star…The Chef

Another Star…THE MENU

       I stopped at my local La Noria Mercado to buy some eggs..18 for $1.32, celery, Chorizo, and Ricotta Cheese before returning home. I noticed my favorite mural but now overgrown since the last photo I took of it two years ago.

They have hair now!

 I repacked my bag with some Brie Cheese and Concho de Toros Chilean wine and headed for my lecture. The complex had returned to normal with some of the Christmas still left.

My entrance

      Arriving just as they started the lecture/slide presentation on Serial Photography, I sat in the back so I could duck out for my Men’s Happy Hour at Casa Charles.  The Photographer was from Richmond, Virginia, one of my favorite cities and some of his slide presentation was Telephone Poles, Churches, and Recycled buildings of Richmond as well as shoots from Oaxaca and Columbia, S.A.   Serial Photography is taking a theme and following it whether it be Gravesites in Oaxaca or Zocalos of Columbia and trying to hone in on a theme.  Give the photos emotion, meaning, a story.  I thought it fascinating but departed for Casa Charles Happy Hour about half way through.
     It was like old home week…Charles greeted me, Dan the Canadian florist and now Gay B&B owner/operator was there.  Allen, ex-banker , wine expert and world traveler…my pool playing opposition for tomorrow was there.  Bill my friend and author, whose book I bought but haven’t read welcomed me. David and Al a nice couple. Richard from NY or Boston but a world traveler also and Milton, who retired here and a few years later lost his wife to cancer and now rides a motor scooter around town when he comes in from the country where he resides in the Casa he and his wife retired in.  Very open , friendly and great person.  Chuck, a retired lawyer from NOLA who took a case to the US Supreme Court and won, was just leaving when I arrived.  He also does the collection plate at the Santa Domingo Basilica on Sundays occasionally.  Good Catholic stock.  We all had a great conversation on several topics, a few glasses of wine, and maybe a toke or two before 7 pm when Charles needs his beauty sleep…just kidding…but a bunch of old timers having fun can go on forever.
        Allen gave me a lift home and hopefully some pool lessons tomorrow.
     

LIBRARY LECTURE

       

  I had a nice breakfast at Isabell’s after I made a trip to the ATM to replenish my spending money.  I signed up for the Photo class tomorrow at the library then took the bus to Sam’s Club and renewed my membership.  I’m not sure why, they have little I want and can get at Walmart without the membership.  I added a Smart TV, Folding Recliner Chair, and a good Mirror to my list when decide I need them.  The Chair is number one and would fit in my limited space patio to get some sun in the morning.

       The “complex” was busy when I left with groups of people prepping food for this evenings celebration of The Feast of the Immaculate Conception celebrates the solemn belief in the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary. It is celebrated on December 8, nine months before the feast of the Nativity of Mary, which is celebrated on September 8. It is one of the most important Marian feasts celebrated in the liturgical calendar of the Roman Catholic Church celebrated worldwide.

     Tables and chairs were being set up with a tarp over the whole complex in case of rain. Flowers decorating a make shift alter along with Christmas lights everywhere.  

      I left again for my Lecture on the food and markets of Oaxaca.  Where it comes from and what was it. It was a packed lecture and over in an hour.  I walked to Tapas and Wine to have a bite to eat.

The woman that gave the lecture came in to eat with some friends.  One of them was Marta, a friend of mine from last year.  We exchanged greeting and hope to have lunch someday.



     When I arrived at the “complex” , there was a trio playing great music.  Some religious with a great female vocalist and some Mexican with trumpets and the crowd joining in with the singing. This music is awesome.

       Deek, my neighbor was taking photos and asked if I was going to dine with them.  They say the Roseary then a Mass and eat at 9 pm.  It was 7pm and I politely declined.

Mary bottom Left

 Eric and his wife invited me to join them at the Candela Dance Hall this week  but it doesn’t open until 11 pm…we shall see.

SUNDAY AND THE START OF A NEW WEEK

       Sunday I was  anxious to try a new restaurant that got rave reviews.

 I walked there to find it was closed on Sunday so had some Posole Chicken Soup next door at a Mexican restaurant called the Aztec.

 Very good.
     I returned early so decided to head for the Churdari Supermarket for some more shopping. I bought some towels, glasses, wine, etc  I felt like a pack Mule so took a taxi home.

     It is now Monday and time to meet Eric, the photographer, and his wife on return holiday to Oaxaca.  Maybe we can try the new restaurant Cabuche.

I stopped at Cabuche on the way to see the menu.  The waiter from Biznaga was there with one of the waitresses .  Both I knew and remembered me.  He was the one that opened this and took some ideas with him.  The menu looked good so I told him I would return.
     As I left for the meeting a van pulled up and out of the back came three lovely models with 3 photographers.  While they were taking photos, the traffic stopped to look! Can you blame them?

     I arrive at 11:45 so had 30 minutes before they arrived.  I shared a fruit cocktail and coffee while reading my Kindle book.

Tom, my old neighbor from last year greeted me.  He was having lunch with one of his Mexican lady friends.

We agreed to meet when he returns from the states to renew his visa…we have to every 6 months unless your a resident.
          I got so wrapped up in my book that I lost track of time.  12:45…they were a 1/2 hour late…I decided to look for them and discovered they were at The Jardin Restaurant…NOT the Jardin Cafeteria where I was.  They had ordered food after waiting for me so I had a beer while we chatted. I wanted to eat at Cabuche and wasn’t that hungry now.

      When they finished lunch, we walked to the library so they could sign up to see the “Plume” dancers in a village on Saturday.  I signed up for a lecture for tomorrow on food.  They had been at Latin Dance lessons for two hours before meeting me so returned for a siesta.  I went to Cabuche and had a light lunch and took a salad home for dinner.

Meatballs (most gone now) and beans…mmmm good.

Ladies Room

Men’s Room

BACK IN THE SWING

         I visited my friend Hector that runs a news stand in Llano Park.  His business is slowing.  I can get “The News” on the Internet for free but I still buy it from him.  On the way to meet my Canadian friend Darcy I stopped for a haircut.  He remembered me but his shop was empty and he moved slower.  Last year he was absent for a week for a funeral of someone very close to him…wife I think.  He has lost his smile and spirit.  He cuts hair to keep busy and seems to spend  more time doing it…as if he is meditating and doesn’t want it to end because then he is alone again in his empty shop.

My Casa 801 Fiallo


       Darcy was in his usual seat at El Importante in the Zocalo, feeding his pigeons and drinking his pitchers of beer.  I gave him a photo book that Julie, a photographer had published.  She was a Couch Surfer at Darcy’s sister’s home last year for a week while taking classes at the Photography School here in Oaxaca.  Julie and I had kept in touch and share our websites.  It was a gift for Pat, Darcy’s sister.  She lives with her boyfriend Don in the country just outside of Oaxaca. He gave me some Chocolate Waffles he made with “special” ingredients.  I asked what happened to the muffins?  He got a deal on a $4 Waffle Maker at the thrift show.  I had a late breakfast and a beer while catching up since last I saw him.

One of Lawn Sculptures


        The next day I checked out the “Health Food Store” near the library and bought some homemade yogurt.  Had some Ceviche at a little Cafe then stopped at the library.

 I saw Micheal , a retired professor from Montreal who had spent the last 5 months in Southeast Asia…mostly around Angkor Wat Temples in Siem Reap, Cambodia.  We agreed to do lunch soon.  
          I was off to buy more to stock up the condo.  Talking to Micheal reminded me of a restaurant we used to eat at across from a wholesale supermarket on the way home.   I  walked over there and did my shopping then had lunch at El Sabors before hauling my stuff home to find the yogurt container broke a leaked whey all over my bag.

        Mary stopped by to invite me to Mass being held in the complex.  This Sunday is a special religious holiday so the owner invites us to join them then after the Mass they return to the complex for music and food.  It sounds nice but no thanks.
          Friday Morning I headed for the Llano Market for Fruit and Vegetables…and a pipe.

        This evening I agreed to meet Richard, another friend from last year that has a home in San Miguel De Allende where I stayed for a few days after I helped drive him back home last year.  He travels a lot.  I took the taxi and the driver spoke no English but I told him that allows me to practice so he started quizzing me.  I was understanding most of what he was saying and replying to him after some thought.  The traffic was backed up all the way to Sol y Luna where I was to meet Richard.  The driver started to sing Christmas Carols in Spanish. He had a beautiful voice and I was enjoying it while learning Spanish.  Only in Oaxaca.  I did make the mistake of exiting when I thought the restaurant was just ahead.  It wasn’t.  I walked faster than the traffic and got there before him.  Then came the Friday Bicycle Group

      Richard was on his second Gin and we reminisced while downing a few more Gins before ordering and switching to Wine.  Emilio the owner arrived and stopped to welcome us.  He had been on tour with his wife.  They play music together and after a gig in Cuba he ended up in South Korea before returning home.  Richard and I booked a table for a concert he booked at the restaurant for the 13th …a week away.

Chef

        We had a great meal then headed for Tapas y Vino for last call, stopped at a dance hall Richard knew about.  They give Salsa lessons that he wants to take before going to Bogota, Columbia for a month.  The place was opened in 1935 as a dance hall and now catered to Salsa and Swing music.


 The band doesn’t start until around 11 pm so we had our last call and bid good bye.
        Saturday Richard came over to see my place then we walked to the Zocalo.  He wanted to buy some Docker’s pants and I wanted some Nuts for Granola.  After he got his pants he took me to the Nut House.  A Warehouse, I would have never found, that sold nuts, raisins, spices, seeds, chili’s, and pet food in bulk.  I picked up a half roasted chicken, tortillas, rice and salsa with a Pepsi for $3.60 to take home for lunch and returned home to enjoy it.

Richard in the Nut House

Chilies

Nuts, Raisins, Beans, Coconut…and Pet Food

FINALLY…RETURNING TO OAXACA

         My anxiety kept getting more intense the closer I got to my departure date to return to Oaxaca.  Lots of mixed feelings and loneliness or more like a boat floating along without an anchor.  I hadn’t slept well the last week before departure.  I wasn’t going to feel comfortable until I flew out of Guadalajara Mexico to Oaxaca…then the rest was a piece of cake. 
        Why the anxiety…I can only think it is getting older and time is running out.  I was “comfortable” in front of my 55 ” TV with Roku, VCR, Blu-Ray DVD , and 5 CD Player…oh yeah…Simple TV too….add on 5 computers…three laptops ,  Two Tablets, and a Smart Phone…and two Kindles…why leave the comforts of home?
     I boarded my Volaris flight out of Phoenix after a three hour wait and check-in then realized why I choose to leave the “comforts”.  The woman sitting in the seat in front of me was a singer I filmed on video singing in a choir with the “Mexican Tuna” group accompanying  the choir.  She caught my attention with her old age, wrinkles, and her passion for singing.  I went to her in Oaxaca and tried to thank her for her performance but she didn’t speak any English and thought me an interloper.  I gracefully exited.Singer with hat on to left of Choir Director
     Now she is unmistakingly the woman I filmed and sitting in front of me at Sky Harbor Airport with the same sweater and hat she wore the night I filmed her.  She was traveling alone so I approached her and in broken Spanish told her I recognized her as the singer accompanying the Tuna Minstrels of Oaxaca that night over a year ago in front of the Main Cathedral in the Zocalo.  She acknowledged she was but couldn’t speak English well enough to tell me why she was in Phoenix and I couldn’t speak Spanish enough to ask her why this was so.  It must have been an omen.
        I left the plane when it landed in Guadalajara and stood in line with 200  gringos and only 2 Customs agents to process us. The Gringo lady in front of me brought her Chihuahua dog on the plane with her.  I think she lived in Chapala or nearby.  I left the check point and picked up my bag.  When I realized there was no Holiday Inn shuttle, I took a Taxi to the Hotel   After checking in, I booked my return shuttle for noon. 

     I headed to Chili’s next door for dinner and a bottle of wine. Holiday Inn Express only served Express Breakfast in the morning. When I got to Chili’s it was  packed but mostly all Gringos to watch to Baltimore Ravens and Cleveland play football.  They all had there computers and sat in the bar area eating and drinking.  I told my waiter that I see more Hispanics in Chili’s in Phoenix than I do here.  

My View

Oh Ugh

        I woke at 8 am and headed for breakfast then returned to the room around 10 am…still had two hours before the shuttle takes me to the airport.

 I decided to wait in the lobby where I printed my boarding pass and got the shuttle early.  Now I was waited again but at the airport.  We left on time and I arrived at 3:30 in Oaxaca on an almost empty plane. 


      It was in the 80’s, though I knew the nights would be down to the 40’s, I was happy.

I arrived, checked in to my new condo, got the keys and the tour then started unpacking all the boxes I left in storage.  It started to get dark so I hurriedly got freshened up and left to get some food and something to bring back.
      I walked to the Zocalo, which no longer looked like a campground of protesting teachers but what  it was meant to be…a beautiful park with a Gazebo for the people. Tres Bistro welcomed me but I only recognized the waitress and she me.  I finished my Steak, Roasted fresh Vegetables and Guacamole with a nice homemade Chocolate Treat…the best in Oaxaca.  
      No Camera to show you the Talent Show set up on the stage for young teens to dance, sing, do acrobatics in front of a large crowd.   I shopped a little and took a taxi home where I put on my long johns was in bed after finishing unpacking around Midnight.  It was so cold I awoke to put on another blanket. 
     Wednesday I went just off the kitchen to light the Hot Water Heater so I could shower.  One of the drawbacks of this complex…none of the Hot Water Heater’s have Thermostats so after turning it on you waited 10-15 minutes then took a shower.  If you didn’t remember to turn it off, it would boil over?  I couldn’t light mine and the pilot was out.  The Gas tank was empty…no hot coffee or stove.  I took a cold “shampoo” then quickly dressed, paid the rent to the landlady’s husband, reported the empty tank and headed for the library.  I met Mary the landlady on the way out.  She told me I didn’t have to pay because I paid last year to hold the place for this year….I forgot.
     I didn’t get far before the pain in my legs started with cramps.  I took the bus, visited with friends at the library, met a couple from Poland then left.

 
        I heard about a Kebab place close by that I hadn’t been to but got good reviews.  I had a “Lamb Salad” on Nan with an Ice Tea.  Again…no camera.  I picked up enough money at the ATM to pay for the whole year tomorrow.

Visited a group of want a be young Chefs then returned by bus home to take a hot shower.
       I returned to the Zocalo that evening. There was a long parade with two bands and dancers all dressed up with headdresses on. I had a Mexican Shrimp Cocktail with some wine while visiting with a couple next to me from San Francisco.  They have been here 8 times but only for short one week visits.  The Wednesday night Danza with a live Salsa like band had started.  Couples dressed in Red danced then presented Roses to their partners. Lots of people as usual.  I bought a hamburguesa on the way home.
    Rounding the corner to my entrance, I encountered the owner’s daughter of 12 maybe, dancing to a video on her cell phone she had propped up on the stairway going to the second level.  She was imitating the dance and stopped when I surprised her.  It was nice to see children having fun alone in their imaginary world.  We lost that.
   
     

I AM HOME …I THINK

    I am not sure where home is anymore…let’s call it “home base”.  I’ve been back a couple weeks and have been busy with the usual…replace the car battery,clean the carpets, have the electrical fixture repaired, pickup all my mail, renew auto insurance,fix the garbage disposal, have the condo cleaned, pick up all my clothes in storage,  start making appointments with the doctors (Primary care at the Veteran’s Hospital, Primary care through my Care More Insurance, annual check up at Care More, Renew all scripts with Primary Care, new scripts with new Primary Care, Dental Cleaning, Laser Eye Surgery, Dental Check up, Dental Oral Surgery work, Urologist visit, Cardiologist visit, Cardio Vascular Surgeon visit, back up second opinion Urologist visit, back up Cardio Vascular Surgeon second opinion visit, MRI Scan at Simon Medical, Ear Nose and Throat Doctor visit, Podiatrist visit, ….and revisits, more tests, follow up visits, etc etc.   I played golf 3 times so far and have another scheduled game coming up this week.  Went bowling, visited two casinos, one play, numerous Happy Hours with friends, and am now in California visiting my daughter Heather and her family.  
     If I compare my life back at home base, to my life in Mexico, the only thing of all the above that I include while walking the streets of Oaxaca…is the Happy Hours.  So what is it I do in Mexico?  Relax and enjoy life!
    I returned from a wonderful visit with my daughter and her family with the flu I caught .  It has been two weeks and it is just leaving my system.  My oral surgery is complete with bone graft and a hole where my tooth used to be.  Foot doctor, Oncologist, Eye Doctor and Dentist are done for this year.  ENT doctor says I’m not a candidate for Cochlear Implant….yet…almost deaf. Vascular surgeon might put stents in my legs and Cardiologist wants a stress test. I have appointments out to July 27th (Urologist), so will be hanging around longer than expected this summer.
      Passed the stress test with flying colors.  Cardiovascular Doctor recommended NOT doing any invasive surgery and work out the pain with exercise and workouts. I needed and got new hearing aides that I enjoy more than the old ones. I’ve changed my diet and feel better but not losing weight…!!!.   
     I’m a Host for Active International at an event being held in the Phoenix Art Museum.  I have to introduce members and give some guidence for the Museum event.  Maybe I’ll take some photos.

Also I have a guest from Vancouver B.C. coming in next week for two nights.  I will show him around Scottsdale and put him up while visiting.  My friend Tim, who is living in the Phillipines will be arriving after that.  He is from here and after dropping his son off for college in Vancouver, B.C. (coincidence) he will bus it to Phoenix, then rent a car and visit friends while staying with we for a time.  His brother, another friend of mine and old customer at my restaurant, just passed away last month.  
      The heat is and has been and continues to be HOT.  After my Art Museum event, I will do something for a couple weeks to get out of here. 

PUTNAM PLACE PEOPLE: LIFE ON A DEAD END STREET GROWING UP AS AN ONLY CHILD

      Putnam Place is a peninsula that juts off of East Avenue and ends with a view overlooking a swamp and farm fields below with the Tonawanda Creek meandering by in the distance. The street is laid out on a hill with Maple Trees on both sides then a sidewalk with homes. Behind all the homes on one side was a gully and woods, on the other side the hill sloped down to the street below which was Prospect Street. If you drove down Putnam Place from East Avenue and kept going, you would drive off a cliff and into the swamp, which has since been filled in. When the village had debris to dispose of, it was dumped at the end of Putnam Place. Truly a “Dead End” Street. My father, Bernard Nelson Taylor bought 28 Putnam Place for around 4 or 5 thousand dollars in 1945, just after marrying my mother Olive Marion Streeter. 
           They met at a resort in Lake Placid New York where she was working as a waitress and he was on Rest and Recuperation holiday after completing 10 years in the Army. He quit Attica High School in 1932 then joined the Army a few years later. He served in Panama for 6 years then the last 4 years in the Pacific fighting the war. She quit high school in Lancaster Vermont to work at the Gilman Paper Mill before leaving Vermont and getting a job with her girlfriend waiting on tables at Lake Placid. They were married two weeks after they met. I asked why and Mom replied, “He bought me a diamond ring“

    Our home was two story, two bedrooms and one bath on the second level with living room , dining room , kitchen, and den on the ground floor, basement and small back yard. We were the second to
the last home before the end of the street. I lived there until , at 17 years of age I hitch hiked to Rochester New York , found a job and a room to rent for the summer before attending college at Alfred University. Putnam Place was a little community of families from all over. Some were retired, but most were employed at the Attica State Prison which was built in 1930 and was the main industry in Attica. Dairy Farms were the other means of support. Each family that made up the community of Putnam Place were different sizes, nationalities, ages and interests. Most were Catholic and worked at the prison.
           The Parker’s lived in the last house across the street from us.
Mr. Parker and his son worked at the prison. Junior Parker the younger son in his 20’s was blind most of his life and used to walk up and down the street everyday when he wasn’t sitting on the front porch or playing with his Ham Radio. He had friends around the world he communicated with on his Shortwave radio. He played instruments and was very bright. The Lions Club built him a Snack Stand on the corner of Main and Exchange Street where he sold candy bars, sodas, and snacks in the summer time. He read Braille books. I used to walk with him a lot or just sit and talk on his porch. He taught me a lot. He had a job tuning pianos and a nurse would come and drive him to jobs. He had a foot fetish that my Mother thought normal for a blind man…and so did I. He married the Nurse and moved away after his brother died of lung cancer. I remember talking to Mrs. Parker one day about brushing my teeth. Don’t ask…don’t remember why. She mentioned I should always brush my tongue too. I never forgot that. The house was sold and I had left for college.
        Mr. and Mrs. Lewis lived in the last house next door to us. They were retired and she was sickly and bed ridden a lot. A nice woman 
that gave me an Illustrated book of Poems by Robert Lewis Stevenson when I was around 6 or 7 years old and sick in bed with the measles. I still have the book. Mr. Lewis used to yell at us children playing in the street to stay away from his house. He had a big Chestnut tree we used to love to collect nuts from and make necklaces. I found out later that Mrs. Lewis was sick in bed and needed rest…she died of cancer and we visited her corpse laid out on the bed in her home. He sold the house after and a couple with a young daughter moved in. They lived there a few years before reselling the home to a newly married couple I knew well. Mr. Henneberg was also an employee of the prison and one of my scout leaders. I think they had a son…but I was gone then. His wife had nipples the size of half dollars.
        The home on the left is Mr. and Mrs. Lewis’s from 1945…but…in 2004…but same shingles with porch enclosed. Not now.
         Mr. and Mrs. Kline were our other neighbors. Their home was
identical to ours but opposite. Like a Left handed and Right handed homes or looking at your house in a mirror. Frank Kline was a prison guard and his wife Mrs. Kline (never knew her first name) was a stay at home wife with no children. They were Polish with a slight “old world” accent. He was a Bow and Arrow hobbyist and made his own arrows. When I was in Boy Scouts he was my mentor to obtain my Bow and Arrow Merit Badge to become a Star Scout. He taught me how to shoot in his driveway where he had a straw target in the garage we shot at. He took me fishing once down by the Tonawanda Creek. I got a Bow and Arrow set for Christmas and at 11 years old shot a rabbit while hunting but when I returned holding the rabbit by the arrow through his head I proudly showed it to Mr. Kline.
He told me I needed a license to hunt and this was not the season for it…so go bury your rabbit. Mr. Kline, hearing I had a bad tooth ache and it was Sunday so couldn’t go to the dentist, came over with Q-tips and whiskey to swab my tooth and get rid of the pain. It worked.
       When I was around 11 years old, Dad accidentally started a fire in the basement one morning while siphoning gasoline from a 50 gal. drum into a 5 gal. can to put in his 500 gal. gas pump he had installed in the back yard. I was in bed when he yelled up to get out of the house. The smoke was coming up the stairs as I was coming down. I went to Mrs. Kline knocking on her door in my underwear just as the fire trucks pulled up. We cleaned up the smoke damage and repainted the house ourselves. It took over 3 weeks. Mr. Kline was one of many taken hostage by the inmates of Attica Prison during the riots in 1970 when I was living in Boston. He lived through the ordeal with minor injury but mentally was unfit to return to work. They sold the house to Romasser’s, another guard that just married my Math teacher’s daughter, Janet Fox. Mr. Fox had also been my father’s Math teacher in 1932 at Attica High School. Mr. and Mrs. Kline returned to Buffalo to retire near relatives and never to return to Attica.
         Next door to the Kline’s were the Gasman’s.
Mr. Gasman and his wife Edith, had eloped after she graduated from Attica, married then settled in their humble home on Putnam Place when he got a job at the Basket Factory. He took his lunch pail and walked to work Monday- Friday. He died at an early age and was laid out for viewing on the dining room table in the living room of their house. They had an older daughter named Sharon and a younger Son Mike who was a couple of years older than me and brilliant. He designed a wheel for Ford Motor Company as a student of Mechanical Drawing in High School. I think Ford gave him $100 for that. He then rode a bicycle to South America and was sponsored by National Geographic. Later he became a famous architect and alderman in Aspen Colorado where he opened up a sports clothing business with his label.

          Edith went to Batavia, a larger city 11 miles away to become a House Mother at a Dormitory for the Blind School. Her daughter got married and her son was in college at that time. She worked there for years and became very loved by the students. Edith and my Mother were good friends in their retirement. They visited each other a lot, ran errands and shopped. Mom drove Edith to Doctor’s appointments and Senior Citizen dinners until she lost her license due to declining driving skills. Edith was always on her porch when the weather was nice. The neighbors took advantage and would visit her while she enjoyed her porch swing. I always looked forward to visiting her when I returned home. 
       One day I just arrived and Mom was making dinner so I went up the street to visit Edith. We talked about poetry, my travels, her children and grandchildren until we heard this pounding on the door. It was Mom and she was angry. Your supper is getting cold. I thought you were coming home? Needless to say, I ran out the door following at my mad Mother’s heels. Edith and I laughed about it later. Edith, in her wheel chair, was at my Mother’s funeral and told me she lost the best friend she ever had. Edith died just after reaching 100 years old the following year. 

         The Andrews family lived next to the Gasman’s.
Vic, the father, was also a guard at the prison and his wife Marge did a lot of volunteer work for MS and Polio victims. Their middle son Jackie was stricken with polio at 15 year of age and spent a couple of years in bed, therapy, and at home in braces. His older brother Lee went off to work after High School and later got married. Lee accompanied me to the annual Boy Scout “Father and Son”Banquet held at the school. My Dad seldom returned home from work until around 11 p.m. The Postmaster , John McCarthy (spelling) also accompanied me another year. The Andrew’s youngest son named Don. He was my age and my  best friend until first grade when they sent him to the new Catholic School that just opened in Attica. Grade 1-6 near our St Vincent’s church just around the corner on East Avenue. I took my Religious instructions there one class a week.

Mrs. Andrews used to have all the neighborhood children over Saturday mornings to watch cartoon and westerns on the first Television on Putnam Place. We would all sit on the living room floor watching Howdy Doody or Hopalong Cassidy while Marge served us Peanut Butter and brown sugar sandwiches with Kool-Aid. I spent a lot of time at the Andrew’s home. Mom and Marge used to work at the Penny Saver on Wednesday nights assembling the paper for delivery the next day. I was close to Don then. We played Cowboys and Indians together and were Alter boys at St Vincent’s church where we had our First Communion, Confirmation and were members of the Catholic Youth Organization. We both had train sets in our basements. Mine was an American Flyer his was a Lionel. Dad built me a huge table to lay the track and add trestles, road crossings, villages, mountains, and it had my own control station where I could run two trains at once.
The Andrews family with three boys were sports oriented. We all practiced basketball in there driveway, football on the street and baseball in the park. Don played piano and I played the trumpet. Mrs. Andrews passed away a few years after my Dad died in 1972 . Vic retired after the Prison riots, sold the house and moved into a Senior Center where he had a small apartment closer to downtown. He and Mom would have lunch at Burger King when they had coupons. Vic passed away a few years after his move. Then Don died at 67.
Me and Don…Dick Clark and Gary Wise

Sad to see your own classmate pass.

           Next to the Andrew’s house was the Ecks.
         Mr. and Mrs. Eck were retired and old. They were quiet, polite, friendly, and kept to themselves until their house caught fire one day and they became homeless. Everyone chipped in and helped with the reconstruction of the house and within a few months, they were back in their house. I
know they were no longer there when I returned from Vietnam but don’t know what happened to them. 
                    The home next to the Eck’s was the first house on our side of the street as you entered Putnam Place from East Avenue.
It was large and foreboding (for a young boy growing up). There was one woman that owned it and I think her name was Mrs. Graham but I’m not sure. She was stout and matronly. She was friendly but not out going. There were apartments she rented. It was a big three story Victorian as I recall with a side porch and a large front porch. Being on the corner, I passed it everyday on the way to church, school or just going out.  I remember shoveling the front sidewalk for her tenants in the winter. I don’t remember what happened to Mrs. Graham but the place sold to a dynamic personality who was an up and coming lawyer, 
     He had a beautiful wife, wore suspenders, and was pretty dressy for an overweight man with balding head. The house had been in need of a good paint job and repairs. They fixed it up nice and spent some money. I’m not sure if they continued to rent apartments or restored the house to what it was before. Eventually they left and the house went back into apartments and disrepair.
         Across Putnam Place, on the other corner, was another large Victorian type three story home with a large yard.
         This yard was played in a lot by the “Putnam Place Children” . When I was around 8-9 years old, the Walsh family still occupied the upstairs apartment. Mr. Walsh had passed away from lung cancer and smoking I believe.   Phyllis, his wife and Mother of Chuck, Marilyn (my babysitter), Judy, Bonnie and then Pattie, in that order. She worked as a switchboard operator at the phone company downtown near the Tonawanda Creek on Main Street. We didn’t have dial phones. It was just a black phone you picked up and the operator, Phyllis would come on the line …David, who would you like to call? It was much more personal than “Press One for ?” . Our number was 600. Phyllis had her hands full with four teenage daughters with raging hormones and home alone a lot. They moved after Chuck left to join the service to a smaller apartment up the street on East Avenue. I noted many intimate parties taking place in their new third floor apartment when I would deliver the newspaper there after school.
            While on Putnam Place I was close to Bonnie. We would sit in her front yard in the summer and play Monopoly for hours or hang out in the “gully” behind my house with others from around the
neighborhoods. Many summers were spent in the “woods” behind my house. We had a “Tarzan” rope hung so we could swing across the gully…for hours. Mr. Kelner, from Walnut Street on the other side of the gully, cut the tree branch down one day. He deemed it dangerous? Bonnie and Linda Hollenbeck hung around with a“James Dean” gang with jeans, black leather jackets, white T-shirts
with cigarettes rolled up in the sleeve at the shoulder. They were called the “Hoods”. Both Bonnie and Linda ended up at “Father Baker’s” in Buffalo where all “bad” girls went to have and give away
their baby’s for adoption. No one ever talked about that. I got Chuck Walsh’s metal cot and mattress he used to sleep on for my first bed when he left for the service. I was out of the crib.
               After the Walsh’s moved out the Polly’s moved in. They came up from Elmira as did a lot of guards at the prison. It was transient job and many were transferred around the different NY State Prisons for different reasons. Mr. and Mrs. Polly were wonderful people. Theo was his name. His oldest son Jim was ahead of me in school , then Lou Ann (I had a crush on her) was a grade below with Tommy. I can’t remember the youngest daughter’s name. I used to go on outings with the family and remember having a great time playing in that big yard. Jim was a good baseball player in High School and Tommy was too. I think Jim played football too. The Polly’s eventually moved over to
another big Victorian home on Main Street next to the Attica Public Library.
 Stuart Kelsey, Bonnie Walsh, Me, Don Andrews, Dick Friday, Warren Wind.
       When you came down Putnam Place from that big house…there was a smaller home tucked away from the street that the Satlers lived in.

         They were a retired elderly couple that were quiet friendly and nice to everyone. I delivered paper to them too.

           I think I had worked every paper route in town as a helper or fill in until I bought my own route from Lloyd Jury. He was a year ahead of me and charged me $10 for the longest route in town. It started at Dick Young’s Soda Shop down on the corner of Market and Main then
came up Main to Exchange. I had a hundred papers to deliver. The route went 2 miles out Exchange Street and up the hill past the Prison. I delivered to the Main Gate at the Prison but no one, other
than the Gate Keeper was allowed reading material even though some would drop a rope off the guard tower with a can attached. I would take out the money and he would pull up his paper then I would walk along the wall to Hunt Boulevard where other prison employees lived. There was the Chef, Mr. Joyce, the Priest, the Photographer and chauffeur for the Warden, other guards and my Grandfather, Adam Volk. Grandma would have cookies and lemonade waiting in the summer and Hot Chocolate in the winter.
       I walked or road my bike around the back of the homes where they all took there deliveries. It was tough in three feet of snow sometimes, blizzards, rain , etc. On real bad days I had to take my Toboggan and pull it the entire route of 5 miles. I then went up Dunbar Road to the Reading family then back out Exchange street to the Wheeler’s…then down Dunbar toDisenger’s and Judge Steven’s  house before crossing the bridge over our summer swimming hole in the Tonawanda Creek and on to Creek Road. There I went out toward Varysburg to the Swab farm…my furthest point. I then came back the Creek Road to the Petri’s (where Lloyd Jury now worked doing chores on the farm), the Welker’s and a few others before arriving back at Dick’s Soda Shop where I started.
        I had this route, and added my own TV Guide route, for two years. Christmas I would get $100 in tips but usually only received about $10 a week in tips and pay for the deliveries. I also sold door to door as a representative of the Junior Sales Club of America. I offered wrapping Paper , Greeting Cards, Pot Holders (I made), and other things all for points which gave me prizes…baseball bat, model airplane, etc. 
         Next to the Satlers across from the Andrew’s home was the Stortz family. Their were three apartments in their large Victorian style home situated half way down Putnam Place . The focus of Putnam Place. They had a large yard then with a large tree and swing, a hill behind for sledding in the winter and a large Apple tree to climb. The Stortz’s had 6 children and made the front page of the news with such a large tax deduction on April 15th. I still have the article and photo’s.
         Yard’s were a big deal then. Children played outside all the time. We played hockey on bikes in the street using croquet mallets and ball while racing up and down one team against another. The advantage of a “Dead End Street” meant there was no traffic to speak of , so the street was our playground. We had bonfires every fall, played baseball, football, and just hung out there on the porches.
           Harrison Stortz sold windows for home improvement before opening up a Western Auto Hardware store on Market street just a few doors down from Dick Young’s soda fountain. His wife Irene was needless to say, home with her hands full. The children: Steve, a year younger than me, then Doug, Harry, Ellen, Michael, and Mary Jane slept in bunk beds and all used one bathroom. I spent many nights staying over at their house and ate many meals at there family table
on Melmac plastic dishware. Irene used to make me take a teaspoon of Cod Liver Oil and a One a Day Vitamin in the morning when I stayed over. We played Cowboys and Indians , Hide and Seek, Kick the Can, Capture the flag, etc. The best was the winter’s in their back yard where ALL the neighborhood children would come to slide their, sleds or toboggans or flying saucers , cardboard, whatever …down the hill until late at night when the stars would come out and we would
lay on our backs and make snow angels while imagining what was in that sky.

Me and My New Wooden Sled

       The Stortz’s had a summer get away they called the Piccadilly. It was a retreat in the woods where we would all go for a week of fun and picnics. They also rented a cottage on Silver Lake where even my parents would join us for Sunday outing. My dad swam across the Lake one day and back. Took him an hour. There was a roller skating rink and a small amusement park there we all thought was the greatest thing we knew of at the time. Steve Stortz and I were good friends and went fishing, swimming , camping,hunting and hiking together.
We hitch hiked a lot too and would  dream of getting out of Attica and hitch hiking the world.
      He got Malaria in Vietnam then after recuperating he ended up in Alaska forever. Doug died of the mental disease where you here voices and have to be institutionalized. Harry owns some storage faculties in Florida where the family moved and the father passed away. Irene, the Mother was living in Georgia last I wrote her. Mary Jane was the only one who would return to Attica and visit my Mother , Mrs.Gasman and Putnam Place. Never found out what happened to Mike or Ellen.
        The Wind’s were the next door neighbor to the Stortz’s.  

       Mr Wind was a guard at the prison and his wife stayed home I believe. They were reserved and a quiet couple with three children. Paul the oldest, Warren who was my age, and Elaine. They were true Catholics and all the children went to Catholic school. I heard Elaine became a nun. Warren didn’t. He was destined to be his own man. He started a “Stamp Club” for the few of us that collected stamps. Warren arranged for us to have weekly meetings at the Historical Society where we could trade and compare stamps. He also contracted with Father Colagan to fix up the rectory next to St Vincent’s. He hired me to help him. He was only 12 or 13 years old but he put up Crown molding and we painted the few rooms as you entered into the house. He converted his bike to a tandem bike, collected butterflies, had a garden out back of his home with his father, was very mechanically inclined and had the biggest “shawanz “ of any of us guys.
       Yes we all compared our masculinity…poor Pete Austin. Steve Stortz found some old Nudist magazines in his Aunt Mame’s garage on Prospect Street just behind Stortz’s house at the bottom of the hill. Our “gang” hid them in the gully where we would all go and spend hours looking and discussing sex. We had no idea of anything except “jerking” off gave us pleasure and Sear’s Catalog’s lingerie section was getting old. We hadn’t even reached puberty yet. When sperm came out of me I ran to confession. I thought I really would go blind. Our parents never discussed anything so it was the “hood’s in Attica that told us what to do and where to get rubbers. By 13-14 years old we knew what to do and who to do it with but finding a place was always a problem. Night time helped hide us when we would sneak away from a school function and go out back. The woods was always a good place too. Then when the “girls’ started babysitting…all the bars came down and the word would go out. I liked to keep it to myself. Once we started driving cars, we found more opportunity but few had there own cars so we had to use others or double date and chip in for the gas.           Warren Wind was working in Rochester as a salesman when I returned from Vietnam. He died in his 40’s from AIDES, the Wind’s sold their home and moved after that. 
The Lippold’s were the next to the last house on Putnam Place and lived across the street from us.
       They had two children. Chuck the oldest , who I saw a few years ago at the American Legion. He looked great and was retired . He rode a bike around Attica to keep in shape and was very religious as was the Lippold family. He had a sister Joanie , who was older than me. Mrs Lippold, raised Chickens for eggs and when it was time I watched her chop the head of the chicken. It ran headless all around the back yard where she also had a big garden. She gave me a plot to clear the rocks and till the soil for my 4 H project. My garden was a failure.
        The Lippold’s  had a dog named Mickey. It was a black Sheppard. It would bark a lot if you came near the house. One day my mother sent me over with some meat scraps to give to Mrs. Lippold to give the dog but the dog was out and wanted the scraps now. I was short so raised them up over my head trying to knock on the door when Mickey decided to eat me instead. Well he bit my leg and I gave him the scraps. When I was 10 years old my father took me to Buffalo to pick out my own dog from a litter of German Sheppard puppies. I named him Sir Mickey Nelson Taylor the first. He had papers and was a purebred so Mickey just didn’t seem enough for a purebred.
         My Dad was a doer. He never hired anyone to do a job for him. He put in our lawn, a paved driveway, extended our backyard with loads of dirt from the Village, then built a garage with a “Breezeway” and office overhead, raised the roof and extended the bedrooms, rebuild
and decorated the kitchen twice, enclosed the front porch, added a downstairs bedroom, rebuilt two cars, did all the automotive work, plumbing , electrical, etc, etc. etc. Where he found time to work 6
days a week, keep a mistress, and manage his own family is beyond me. Mr. Lippold was a carpenter and he did assist my dad when he had the roof off the house. It never rained the entire time…and it
took over 10 days. Mrs Lippold gave me a St Christopher’s medal to wear for protection when I left for Vietnam. She had been Captain of the Girl’s Basketball team at Attica H.S in 1937.  
          I held a “faire” in my back yard and sold hot dogs , pop corn and lemonade from the front porch. I put on a Magic show there and we played bad mitten all summer when we weren’t skinny dipping in the Creek, camping, hiking, tending a “trap line”, hunting, sledding,
fishing, playing in the park, riding our bikes, baseball, football, YMCA, outings to West Point for a weekend, off to Cleveland for a baseball game, canoeing up the Genesee river to Rochester, going on
“freeze outs” for a weekend, playing in the High School band, off to Crystal Beach in Canada, marching in parades, delivering newspapers, …it was my wonderful life on Putnam Place.
        The people of my Putnam Place are all gone now but what they gave this only child growing up was so special. I got a lot of attention and gifts being an Only Child but didn’t get a lot of love. I seldom saw my parents kiss or touch each other and never hug. I seldom got hugged or kissed but I got a lot of spankings. I knew my parents loved me but Dad never knew love or how to show it. Mom did a little. I threw a lot of temper tantrums and was spoiled a bit but the people of Putnam Place humbled me. They were my family and I will always thank them for helping me to be who I am today. Putnam Place may be a “Dead End” street for some but for me it was the gateway to the WORLD.

Saturday ..Hospital Visit and ???

       I woke to a house full of guests and family.  Kathy, Helen’s friend , left to return to New Jersey and her Grand Daughter Jenny left for work.  Dawn, her daughter, was expecting her husband to drive up from New Jersey to bring her some clothes to wear for another couple of days that she would stay to help.  
       Helen and I left for Breakfast then I was to follow her to the hospital so I could see David before I left the next day.  I was going to Martin Van Buren’s house after then back to the house. We had a nice Breakfast and Chat before I followed her to the Albany Medical Center.         I parked in Handicapped next to her .  We both have Intermittent Claudation in our legs so the trip from one end of the hospital to the other was slow and painful.  When we arrived at David’s ward, it was FULL.  He had a private room across from the Nurse’s station and was quite cheery.  Normal for David.  He had lots of computers and feeds in to him all hung on a tripod so he could walk around a “Pink” track with pink socks on so if he got off the track, the nurses knew he didn’t belong there.  
     Dawn and her husband John showed up shortly after we arrived.  David’s lunch arrived and I left for Martin Van Buren’s house. Helen slept on David’s bed while he visited with daughter. 

           I had no map or GPS just a general idea so headed South East out of Albany and after driving through the center…I arrived on the road I wanted and ended up at Martin Van Buren’s home. A miracle. 
       The tour started just after a short movie about him and his life.  He was the first “American Born” President.  The 7 before him were born in the British Commonwealth…know as America but not officially.  The tour of his house was interesting.  It was a small home so we were crowded in but the Park Ranger did a great , understandable tour that I did enjoy.  

     I returned to Helen’s after and arrived to Barbara waiting to take me to Max’s Brassier, a Swiss Restaurant with excellent food.  Jenny joined us.  I drove.  When Barbara , who is my height, got into the back seat, I commented…sit up front with the leg room but she said Jenny gets sick when she sits in the back????  OK?  Jenny sat up front and played on her cell phone the entire 20 minute drive while Barb and I shouted back and forth with no response from Jenny.  
      We arrived and were seated in the bar as it was Saturday and all the tables were booked with reservations.  It was nice and comfortable and Jenny was pleasantly surprised by the menu.  She like local, organic food prepared fresh to order.  She got it and came to life.  We all had a really nice meal and a nice conversation.  
         Helen and Dawn were home when we arrived.  We all went to bed early.  

SUNDAY RETURN


         I woke Sunday and packed.  Then had coffee with Helen and left for Batavia after having the last piece of Apple Pie.  I stopped at McDonald’s for a scrambled egg and sausage breakfast and was on the road by 11 am.   I drove straight to Batavia through four SNOW flurries all along the way and arrived about 3:30 and checked in the Comfort Inn.  

         I unpacked and got comfortable then around 5 pm I headed for Alex’s Restaurant for the Twilight Special.  The ground was covered with snow when I got in the car.   It was melted by the time I got to Alex’s.  I had the Chopped Sirloin with Mushroom Gravy, Tomato Basil soup, Collard Greens with Red Peppers, Cheese and Crackers, two glasses of Merlot then returned.  It is so nice and quiet here.
           The rental car now had an additional 1800 miles on it since I picked it up at the airport.  I drove around 36-40 hours of my 13 day trip to the Northeast.  I made a copy of the 1937 Yearbook from Attica H.S.  My Aunt Grace was in her Sophomore year and my Uncle Charlie in his Senior year.  Then Monday I took it to the Attica Library and donated it while reviewing others from 1931-41.  Goodbye Attica.

Waiting for the Plane


       

Friday Trip to FDR’s House

        Everyone had left for the hospital and I was left with the dog.  Everyday Jenny puts a blanket on the couch and turns the TV on to the Greatful Dead Music Channel for Boomer the Dog. She must know all their songs by now.  I would be in the way and couldn’t do anything so headed for FDR’s home in Hyde Park after breakfast at the Diner again.

  It was around 1:30 pm when I arrived, got my ticket and shortly after was with a large group led by our Park Ranger guide.   The Ranger had a high pitched voice and I could barely hear him but enjoyed the one hour tour before going to the FIRST Presidential library which was FDR’s and located next door.

Paralyzed from the waist down..he hoisted himself up to second floor in his own elevator

FDR was born in this bed, in this room…and grew up as a child here.

  I passed by his and Eleanor’s grave site first.

 
         It was around 4 pm when I decided to visit the CIA just down the road.  The Culinary Institute of America was the USA’s foremost school of Culinary Arts.

 Most of my “Chef ” friends had some connection to it.  They had been instructors there or graduates.   I wanted to eat there but it was so crowded and the lines so long to get in to the restaurants that I took some photos and left to return to Helen’s.
         I got back around 5:30 and no one was home, a first!   It was so quiet and relaxing…then Kathy showed …oh David , I haven’t seen you in 8 years I think.  She came up to help Helen through the this ordeal.  They were neighbors in Freehold N.J.  She brought some Meatballs and Spaghetti to feed everyone when they returned from the hospital a few minutes later. Barbara had brought Meatballs and Spaghetti the night before….and David’s brother brought over Meatballs and Spaghetti the next night.  It really was a nice support group with her children, sister, friends and me.
           David’s operation had gone well but he had a clot that were worried about and had to stay in the hospital until Monday.    I would stop by the hospital Saturday to say hi to David before visiting Martin Van Buren’s house.

Return to Coxsackie, Family Crisis, Historic Hudson River Valley Homes

             I called Helen at I got within 50 miles to let her know I would arrive shortly when she informed me that David had a stent put in where the other stent had failed and got clogged.  Erik , her son had driven up from Richmond Virginia to be with his father as did his two sister’s Tina and Dawn.  I arrived and Tina’s daughter, who lived in an apartment Helen had built for her was home to greet me.  Barbara, Helen’s sister called and told me she was bringing Spaghetti and Meatballs over for dinner.  Helen showed up with Erik her son, just after Barbara arrived so we ate and chatted until late.  The local “drug runner” , friend of the family brought over some Xanax to calm Helen’s nerves and allow her to sleep that night.  Barbara and I are going to see one of the Historical Homes on the Hudson river tomorrow around Noon.  She went home and I went to bed.
       She got here early so we went down to the local diner and had breakfast and headed for Germantown and the Livingston Estate.

First Steamer, The Clermont.  Fulton and Livingston were partners.

Livingston Family…descendants of the one that drafted the Declaration of Independence and negotiated the Louisiana Purchase

Livingstone Mansion

Their property

 Livingstone’s were rich and owned lots of property on both sides of the Hudson.  One helped draft the Declaration of Independence but refused to sign it in case Britain won the war.  It was considered treasonous and they would have lost all there property , wealth and lives.  It was a nice tour and after Barb wanted to take me to Beeham Arms for dinner.  The Montgomery House was just up the road a bit so we stopped there first.

Montgomery Mansion…1st General to die in the Revolution

 Barbara stayed in the car and called some Real Estate customers she was working with while I walked to the Montgomery House .  A tour would take too long and it was too late but I took photos of the grounds and the house before returning to the parking lot and Barbara.  She drove through the campus of Bard University.

We then drove into Rhinebeck, a wealthy suburb of NYC.to have dinner at the Beeham Inn.  It is the oldest operating Inn in the U.S….but the Red Lion in Sturbridge Massachusetts says the same?

  We had a great meal with Colin our waiter,  then returned to a house full of people just returned from the hospital.
          The Doctor decided David needed a “heart map” operation the next day so would not becoming home.  The operation would start at 9 am and take 7 hours.  The whole family went in to support Helen.